Showing posts with label Tibetan Buddhism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Tibetan Buddhism. Show all posts

Monday, September 29, 2014

Samaya – The sacred bond with the Guru


One year and three months ago I had the luck to meet my present teacher. That time I knew so little about the importance of having a guru in a spiritual path and even less of how is working this kind of relationship.
When i met my teacher for first time, I think he was the one who find me first. That time I was just freshly arrived in Nepal, and living in a Tibetan Buddhist monastery were everything was such a strange, new reality for me. Looking back at that first meeting, I had such a criticized mind and of course I was lacking of wisdom and knowledge of how things working in a karmic level inside conventionality. He was the first monk who talked to me and then I didn’t see him again, until I was ready for him.
With my Guru, on a pilgrimage at Pharping , Nepal.
In this time between my first and second meeting, I was really into a fusion of studies and experiences from the world that was presented to me through  Tibetan Buddhism. My faith was increasing and when everything was placed to where it should be, the right conditions appeared and had my second meeting with my teacher. 
That day I came out from the monastery to have a walk and then I saw him from afar. It was an experience beyond words. As much as I was getting closer to him a feeling of joyfulness was increasing.  A river of unconditional love was running from my heart to my Teachers heart and vice versa! A feeling that I never had experienced before. So clean and so strong.
In Tibetan Buddhism you can have many spiritual teachers, that can teach you the Dharma but you can have only one Root Guru. The difference is that the Root Guru is much more than a teacher is the embodiment of the Buddhadharma itself! Is the one that goes beyond and can transmit realizations through his actions and teachings, if the student is ready and open to them. 
The 3 kinds of a Guru. 
The Guru assume an ordinary form. He appears to has the same delusions as we have, such as anger, desire, hatred and so forth. But because of this ordinary form we have a chance to accumulate merit and wisdom. If the Lama remains in the dharmakaya state  then we wouldn't have any opportunity to listen to the teachings of the Buddha, practice and reach the omniscient state. 

The Guru assume a Nirmakaya manifestation, which is the physical aspect of an enlightened being. Awakening beings who have reached one of the 10 grounds ( Bhumis ) so their wisdom and love are beyond ordinary level, therefore have excellent qualities to guide the disciples.

The Guru assume a Sambhogakaya form, which is a non-material form, the body of enjoyment.  Is the unity of compassion and wisdom. The form of Sambhogakaya cannot be perceived by ordinary beings, for one needs to have a purified mind both to perceive it and to communicate it. 
Each disciple finds his teacher according to his level of realization. His Holiness the Dalai Lama often says, that someone needs to check a Lama for 12 years before commit himself to a guru-disciple bond but there are occasions that there is such a karmic connection with a teacher, that is inevitably this bond. 
Milarepa the Great Yogi of Tibet, image taken from here
Like in the history of the great yogi Milarepa , who attain enlightenment by all the transmissions and instructions he had from his guru, Marpa , the translator. When Milarepa heard for first time the name of Marpa, tears of joy filed up his eyes and love into his heart. Before he even see him in real he knew that it will be his teacher, and his perseverance until he can be accepted from Marpa is such an incredible inspiration for all of us here that we feel dissatisfy because we cannot see often our teacher or  attend his teachings. We think that only being close to him, we can have a good practice or realizations. Of course to be with your own guru is such a blessing but also we are often holding a wrong view about the essence of our guru.
The true essence of our guru's mind, is compassion and wisdom, this state of clarity  is ultimate the essence of our own mind, therefore, the supreme guru is never separate from us. He is never gone is always present !  
These days , the travels are very easy to be done, the Dharma is available in the West world, and teachers very often visiting centers around the world. So basically we are very fortune. Some hundreds years ago, in order to receive just 4 lines of a Dharma teaching the disciple would cross borders of lands and mountains by their own feet. Or like the Noble Lama Atisha, would travel by ship for 13 months in order to receive instructions on the Bodhicitta training from the Sublime master from Sumatra, Dharmakirti. Maybe nowdays things are a little bit more easy but in terms of purification i think back then, was more intense.

Simple points of checking the teacher. 
A teacher is someone who is compassionate, proficient in the three trainings of ethics, meditation and wisdom and he is well versed in Buddhadharma. Is someone who can answer our questions directly and clarify  our doubts, and whose outward appearance and behavior indicates an inner realization. But this doesn't mean that behave or speak strangely to show that is an awakening mind. In same way like his Holiness even he is a living Buddha, he always call himself a simple monk!    

A karmic connection that never ends.
When the teacher passes away doesn't mean that the guru-disciple bond is vanished. The root guru stays forever and the karmic connection is so strong that will find a way this imprint to ripen in next lives. The most important we can do as disciples for our teacher is to offer them our practices and relaizations. It is said that if a student can become a Bodhisattva following the instructions of his teacher, the merit that is gathered for our Teacher is infinite! Isn't such a great way, to give such a present to our kind teacher, and offer the fruition of our practices ?   

 We need to see that our teacher is the one who constantly aspire us to put Dharma practice in action and the one who every time gets us on the right track when we lost. He is teaching us what we need to adopt and what to abandon and make possible our progress on the Path and ultimately he make possible the way to the Buddhahood.

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Renunciation

The first teaching of Buddha, 2.500 years ago, was the Forth Noble Truths.

. The truth of suffering
. The truth of origin of suffering
. The truth of cessation
. The truth of the path

And by reflecting on the four Noble Truth the 3 principles of the path towards enlightenment which are :

. Renunciation - that one wants to be free of the suffering of the cycle existence ( samsara ) -

. Generate bodhicitta mind - one cultivates pure altruistic intention to benefit all the other beings -

. Understanding the emptiness simply by cultivating the correct view on the depending arising and all things, which is an ego-free view.

Of course I'm not a dharma teacher to talk or write thoroughly about the Buddha's teachings but since currently I'm living in a Tibetan Buddhist monastery in Nepal, I thought i can share some of my experiences in relation to my understanding on how can one look upon the life itself and especially when life seems that is collapsing.
From the teachings that I receive up to now and from my personal study I understand how precious is one to come to the understanding of the truth of suffering and the causes of suffering - the two first noble truths - .
The understanding natural leads to a strong determination that one wants to renounce the suffering from his life and bring vastness of happiness instead.

There are 3 kinds of sufferings that one can experience :

. The suffering of suffering which easily all beings can understand the pain of pain. Physical or mental and all at a certain point we renounce this pain , as we don't want to experience it.

. The suffering of change. Our "un-contentment" mind always seek temporary happiness through possessions , relationships , reputation etc. but of course all these , is the case that are constantly change and our ego-view mind cannot cope with the change and thus we experience suffering.

. The pervasive suffering. Is the suffering that comes from the way we perceive all phenomena and the Self. The aggregates of the mind ( the 5 Skandas in Sanskrit )
- form
- sensation
- perception
- memory
- consciousness
Are polluted through the Buddhist point of view by delusions and karma , therefore all the phenomena we perceive to exist through the contaminated aggregates are creating causes for self misery continually throughout our life span.

So that why is important to understand the truth of suffering and the cause of suffering so we can make our first step towards renunciation. This is the first step towards enlightenment.

Then naturally questions arisen. How do I get out of this continuous suffering ?
What is the nature of this freedom ?
What is the path to attain it ?

Well I really cannot answer for you into this , but I'm sure that with self study and self investigation one can certainly give some answers but the most important is that there are tools out there ready for use !
The dharma teachings, if you learn how to listen to them and if you start putting them into practice, is one of the most powerful tools that one can have in order to taming the mind and remove all obscurations from it, so its pure clear nature be finally revealed.
The Tibetan Buddhism tradition that I'm studying, presented the Lam - Rim discourse to the world about one millennium ago, which are the stages to enlightenment.
One who can listen , study , understand and contemplate on Lam - Rim , he can transform his behavior.

Through the Lam - Rim are taking place 3 kinds of high trainings:
1. Ethic training - one becomes an expression of non-violence and a pure heart -
2. Single point concentration training - one is able to abandon all meaningless distractions into his way -
3. Wisdom training - one is able to abandon delusions of all kinds -

Absolutely hard work but it works ! I'm studying less than 2 months here , total beginner but I'm so impressed how life looks thought my eyes now. And I had a good "test drive" while I am here. Couple of weeks ago I learn that all my "possessions" that i left in India are gone. When I left Greece I took with me all my precious possessions. My favorites clothes, presents from my best friends, and of course my laptop with my hard disc , with all my teaching yoga material an accumulation of studying of the last years , a booklet that I was writing on yoga , all my memories with thousands of photos now lost and of course my precious Ashtanga authorization paper from Manju P. Jois. Because of my coming to the kopan monastery I thought that it was better to leave my stuff in India and make my time here more focus on the studies and more simple in my needs and way of living. So when I learn that everything were stolen for first time in my life I didn't freak out ! My first thought was for the person who did it because knowing who he is, I know that what he did is out of his weakness of grasping material possessions despite of the wealth life that he has ...I really felt so sorry for him.
After that I was still breathing ..! No anxiety , no panic. Still breathing . I couldn't believe that this reaction was happening to me and seriously it was the first sign that the transformation is actually taking place! To decide not to be merely labeled by my possessions and absolutely let go of that past get me somehow more free. And being able to stay at Kopan all these weeks, is making me feel that maybe for first time, that I am to my real" home ".

I dedicate this post to Lama Zopa Riponche , that is my inspiration and the lamp that i hold when i walk to the darkness paths of my ignorance